The Game- something two people play

 ( My talented friend wrote this, and I thought I should share her wisdom with all of you )

 The Game- something two people play. The Game can lead to some unexpected feelings and can be resembled to a rollercoaster ride. There may be some thrill when going up and down in loops but there may also be some nausia involved due to the fear factor. Scilence is a contributing fear factor mostly because of the different experiences of the sexes but also the individual experiences that lead the person to interpretate things somewhat differently then what the other person meant. One major difference of the opposite sexes is that girls have been fed with illusions about princes and princesses all there lifes meanwhile boys have been fed with porn magazines, both sexes have a somewhat twisted vision of reality and how things should look and feel that one should have in mind when entering the game.
it is unfair to let the other person guess what is on the other persons mind- to keep it simple- and i think simplicity is helpful for both parties- one should not be afraid of communication. Having said that- Fear is the biggest spoiler- though very human. One stripps "naked" infront of another person- something one does not do every day- so it does take some practice to master- some people are better at it then others- its really all about the comfort zone the person is in. Not to forget- Games can be fun and can give unexpected reactions, Not playing at all can be somewhat dull. Life is about meeting ones fears and learning ones limits and choosing what rides to go on and when to get off.

Having this said. I seldom play games, though i think they are interesting, my fear is in the lack of control and ultimately falling out of the seat. Very human. Though It has kept my interest going and i would like to explore some more- I do feel the need of a little bit more communication to communicate when the ride is getting to uncomfortable- i feel the need of honesty and that is how i intend to proceed- i like things simple. No person is an open book- because some chapters have not been written yet.

-I am Woman-